I would prefer to stay anonymous because of the nature of this query. I have a weird fantasy that I want to poop on my husband. I really do not know where this comes from, however, the desire has been very strong with me. Prior to my marriage I was in a relationship with this ex-boyfriend of mine, who really loved me pooping on him. This act isn’t something I desire in the bedroom, however it’s more of an emotional need. The thought of pooping on my husband is followed by a sense of peace. The fact that I am unable to discuss it with my husband is very stressful. However, I feel he would be disgusted at me for presenting this fantasy of mine. Need suggestions!
I want to poop on my husband
First of all, I thank you for trusting on us with such a sensitive topic. The first thing you need to know is that your fantasy is definitely not rare. If you Google over the topic you would read lot of people find it comfortable to use the loo in front of their significant other. So your fantasy is perfectly normal.
Now, coming to the case of discussing it with your husband, it largely depends on the nature of the relationship between you and your husband. Personally I believe that a person should be absolutely shameless in discussing their needs with their spouse. A marriage unlike other forms of relationship, involves accepting the good, the bad and, the dirty of the other person. Whether he accepts your fantasy or not is a different case, however you should definitely be comfortable discussing it with him, otherwise it defeats the basic purpose of a marriage.
So lady, be confident and say it out to your husband. If he makes you uncomfortable with your desires, he would be at fault.
Next comes the case with convincing him to allow you to poop on him. Obviously consent plays a very important role here but there are ways of getting consent from him and most women know it right.
Seduction and then asking for return of favors is definitely not a bad idea. Then you can also move towards this fantasy slowly if you feel that he is way too disgusted at the thought of being pooped upon. Should that be the case then push it towards the necessary comfort level step by step.
Step 1: Keep yourself clean.
Step 2: Start introducing him do websites, videos, and content involving subtler versions of your fantasy. Presenting this when he is in a state of seduction would have a better impact.
Step 3: Start moving towards your fantasy step by step for the example leave the door open while using the bathroom. Step in the bathroom when your husband is pooping. If he takes offense then better luck next time. Keep doing it for a while till you both get comfortable with the act.
Step 4: Start opening up to him about your thoughts in general and also listen to what all he has to say . This will help both of you get closer.
Step 5: Once he is in that absolute state of comfort, offer him fulfillment of his wildest fantasies, whatever he suggests.
Step 6: Now present him your ideas of wild fantasies and keep it a on one thing. “You get what you want when you give what I need.” I am again pressing on the value of consent here strongly.
Step 7: If he agrees for the act once then make sure that it is done in a clean and comfortable environment and is followed by treating him in the best possible manner. This will encourage him to leisure you in the same manner again and again.
Wish you a happy mother life!